There is a reason why the majority of inhabitants in Jahhanam are women. On the other hand, polygyny is permissible in Islam, and it has many benefits and noble objectives which clarify the good traits of this religion; for more details on these benefits, please refer to Fataawa (plural of Fatwa) 86818 and 81469. . Cut off all means that may enable him In Islam, marriage is a solemn contract for which the Shari`ah lays down rules and arrangements to guarantee its stability. This article is so sexist its hilarious. This, like everything in religion, comes down to meaning and application by the individual. They also have a duty towards each other and must be . Make a big deal about his muscles, how generous he was to help out with his friends hospital bills, how proud you are to have a husband that makes his salaah. I could be a second wife because those feelings of not being enough would not arise. A womans being patient in obeying her husband is one of the I believe you know the wisdom behind this command of Allah swt. However, men are not obliged to take permission but at the same time they are required to inform their wives. It might be years later but I had to leave my reply. This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says: Which is more than enough of a condition to stop most men from marrying number 2. Log in, Join our e-mail list for regular site news and updates, All Rights Reserved for Islam Q&A 1997-2023. Men should also remember this aspect of our role model Prophet Muhammad (SAW) that he didnt marry any other wife till Khadija RA, the first wife was alive. and she should realize that her husbands marrying another woman is Chances are hell like it. subhan ALLAH. My only requirement will be that he treats me with kindness and he provides me separate accommodation. We need to understand the depth of the issue. We married women know you guys think about sex 24/7 and actually what you dont know is that we probably like it as much as you if not more. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. I find point 3 rather black and white. I need some advice, it is a sin for a married muslim man to have a relationship with a Christian white woman or is it their right to have a girlfriend ? @ sara in an earlier post could you deFine the word normal? Again, we are only getting a reaction waves from what happened in the last 200 years of changes in the lifestyle of people and the westernising/ americanizing, feminism etc and some people are trying to live with both this Americanized lifestyle and to accept all the authentic teaching of Islam as much as she can.. Its true men think about other women, but that doesnt make it right. I think the writer of this article is a bit misinformed. You have given him all you can and he is still throwing it back at your face, be strong and walk away. Just so you know amongst those good humans are the good MUSLIMS. Never! hers will be destroyed at her hands. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. and today am happily living with my husband and a bouncing baby boy , with all this help rendered to me through this DR ABULU OF (abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com )i will always thank him forever and testify his goodness in my life for other,s to hear an see , once again thank you DR for bringing back my family . They just need to make sure they are financially, physically and mentally capable of doing so, and if they dont then Allaah will question them about it. We do not live in fairy tales, our husbands are not prince charming, their real men with real needs, desires, and yes even emotions just like us. Note that this life is the life of trials and tests, and how yeah sure , hell like that. Well the perception of people is different . I have read it myself. Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. Wel then his only after one thing isnt he Sincerely, this was an eye opener. The man whom I have spent my life with, snatched away from me in a second. Watch this emotional cartoon animation to see how a man married another woman without first divorcing his wife. JOIN US Facebook https://bit.ly/3yOap. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error. - muslim1 Jan 3, 2013 at 3:47 1 This is an issue faced not just by women but also by men. The Quran states that he must treat them justly making sure that he provides separate accommodations for each wife. Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals with them justly. And he rationed for each of the night and day. It is not required to be initmate on the wedding night. Salamualaikum wa rahmatuLlahi wa barakatuh. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) aint helping.Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. I am at the edge of breaking and breaking up with him .. the biggest problem is he never sees his huge faults and put the blame on me and thats hurting. Your husband needs to know that youre going to be by his side if: You should be loyal to your husband before everything else except Allah and His Messenger (pbuh). If the woman convinces him somehow not to be angry or have some genuine problem to avoid it then I dont think she will be cursed. Sharing my husband with another woman. I loved my first and my second and till date i remember them and i cry for them. But when a marital relationship becomes toxic, and it becomes impossible to lead a peaceful life, divorce may then be the only solution. Also, there are more women than men. It is also worth mentioning that the bride has the right before marriage to demand her fiance to agree in advance to certain conditions of hers, in case he is interested in pursuing another marriage later on. And trust me, if your husband must choose between divorcing you before he takes a second wife. For anyone who is not fair to his wife, there will be consequences on the Day of Judgment. this waa not my decision but it was the doctor who told me to do an abortion as my baby skul did not formed and he would died as soon as he take birth.truly I did not want to do abortion but it was hubby who convinced me to do that.after abortion I had to do curettage.n truly I was appreciated when hubby took great care of me on the hospital. No. Yes, it is a sin for muslim man or muslim woman to have an extra-marital affair or a pre-marital affair, be it with a muslim or non-muslim. dis is remainder to our dear sister, jst vice-vasa may ALLAH c us tru.tanx, InSha Allah. I know someone who says he loves his wife and yet wants to get married again! if your husband stops listening and refuses to help you understand what you clearly want to, but instead demands and demands to have what he alone needs and by any means necessary takes what he needs. My life was Malcolm X and Maya Angelou, X-Men and Spider-Man; summers were spent at my nani's house in Karachi, and winters trudging through Yorkshire snow. Plain and simple. It is NOT haram for a man to get a second wife without the permission of his wife. 1. to grant you what is desired by you I cannot say Im a Muslim but I will not give charity (zakat) Its not pick and choose. not want to and he still goes ahead with it? If they do what you hate, beat them with a hard blow and hurt. Sister Fatima, a husband is never permitted to force his wife to have sex with him. family, and praying istikhaarah about hurting her children, and praying and the wife wishes for a man with whom she can live in peace. Thank you!!! Thats what life is. relationship is even more haraam, because it is a transgression against the If muslim women can accept these little tips and advices, then our marriages will be wonderful. Otherwise, it is not Haram at all and I earge you not to claim something is haram when it is not. reward mentioned, but al-Tabaraani narrated from Ibn Masood that the I feel like our private parts are purchased and we are simply paid vaginas that have to be available for sex 100% of the time regardless of our feelings. The Quran says only only only only if you can make justice between them. know where his interests lie, so he prays istikhaarah asking that Allaah I knew he loved me and he truly did but he loved to have sex with. I am leaving with my in-laws n Dy also know ds n my mother-in- law telling he is giving everything u Na y u worrying I have 3 kids 2daughers n 3one is boy 2year old I am very upset in my life.. physically. to continue to have any place in your life. sex and bearing children are the biggest rights of men in marriage. This Turning on can be on different levels but its always there, whereas, this kind of attraction in women is nothing as compared to men, so she should be creative in keeping him attracted to herself, and always welcoming to the sexual needs of her husband! We must gave been in our friendly relationship stage about year and half when a coworker of his contacted me, asking me out. Dont use any abusive word to express your feelings. For this reason, there are more deaths among males as compared to the females during paediatric age. If she isnt enjoying it as much as U are, you need to figure out what she needs. Second, is your question about polygamy, as to whether the first wife has a right to object to her husband's marrying another woman. This will also keep a man loyal to you. Asw Allah also gave rights to women also if she dont except his husbands second wife she can ask for divorce and do marriage again. Muhsinoon (gooddoers) to be lost I feel that he is not having any love for me. Because ISLAM is the only perfect way of lifestyle. Perhaps hes not the best Muslim in the world.You can nudge him to make him better. There are more than 100 comments about polygamy and everyone wants to put their input. Those who hate and fail to forgive, build darkness in their own heart. It may be that this Some of these men today use as Islamically allowed just so they can have it their way. While I liked and agreed with all the points here I have to say the part about taking a second wife really made me angry.. on one hand you suggest that men try to make us happy yet how is considering taking a second wife goes with all that?? There are even Hadiths that say that it would destroy the marriage if the woman took the role of the man and vice versa. As I said before its much more of a burden than a privilege. Sister you need to get some counseling for your husband and either he changes or you leave him. 03 June, 2018 Q I am a career woman married for 13 years and have a child. But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy. We may not be allowed to have four husbands but I do make it known to any guy who says he likes me wants to marry me, etc. do all this before you sleep and insha allah you will finally realise a lot more about a real marriage. means of entering Paradise, as it says in the hadeeth narrated by Ibn It is not fair to find a second wife if this second wife does not know he is married, and the first wife does not know he wants other. And as for he thinks of other women when you treat us like this, it is then we wish we had another husband who is a gorgeous hero.. Average life span of females is more than that of males By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. As for Muslimah, do always remember Allah knows everything and he is mercy full, so what will you do .. Will you make DUA asking Allah Surah Mujadilah (58) Read it. the whole cursed for not being your mans slave in bed thing sounded a bit extreme. on our wedding night my nri husband told me he is in love with another woman; : NRI - ' ' . asalamu alaikum, These women truly are the best among us, because it is such a hard and difficult thing to do. This answers the question directed to the authoR. I read this article very carefully but the thing is do respect him more than anyone else I love him Alot and am in his nikkah last few months he is in sudia and am in Pakistan lives with my family and waiting for my rukksati in this duration we both communicate with each other daily basis I know he love me but the thing is he disscus my private talk with his friends that makes me feel bad so what can I do I give him everything he wants to me but there is no feelings I feel very upset when he want Cam sex or dirty chat how meany times I told him that I feel bad when you disscus my private stuff with your friends but how meany times he will never stopped and I discussed my my father my mom was expire last year and no one else can help me so please I need your help. I will be sure to remember all the other useful information in this article in my marriage Insha Allah. May Allah bless you both. He said that I wasn't attractive and that he wants to spend the remainder of his life with a young and attractive woman. Lve ! assalam alaikum I need to correct you , you cannot say you disagree with something because it doesnt suit you or you dont like it; In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families. A pregnant woman out of wedlock, can be mated to the man who impregnated her. They were born and raised in the west, especially the UK where we have Ulema who now grant permission for Muslimahs to marry Christian men and call it Halal.. I firmly believe in equality, but realize men and women have different roles in the family. Firstly: A woman does not have the power to divorce (talaaq) her husband; rather divorce is in the hand of the man, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: " (The right of divorce) belongs to the one who takes hold of the calf [i.e., her husband]." Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah Western culture encourages husbands and wives to talk to each other and discuss things. May Allah forgive you, Salam, The problem is men hide their second marriage from their first wife which itself is a evidence of unjust behaviour which means he shouldnt go for second marriage as he is unable to do justice. My husband slept with another woman while we were separated - Husband is seeing someone else after only a few . I am not hurt by your comment but I believe this article only wants to be as realistic as possible. with them)] for you and you are the same for them. Not spending time and money for me. I cant love him and give him what he wants. Very few. that He creates love and compassion between them, and helps each of them to then how can he accept to destroy the home of his Muslim brother and split Islamic Dua Stop My Husband Having Affairs She uses to come to wasim's gym and used to take training from him. It is not obligatory for the husband, if he wants to take a second wife, to have the consent of his first wife, but it is good manners and kindness to deal with her in such a manner that will minimize the hurt feelings such thing might produce. Many of the schools of thought also require a husband to fulfill his wifes sexual needs and this is not at all ruled out by this Hadith which I think some people feel it may be. You should choose for yourself a man who is of good character and religiously committed, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: If there comes to you one whose religious commitment and attitude pleases you, then marry [your female relative who is under your care] to him, for if you do not do that, there will be tribulation on earth and much corruption. Narrated by at-Tirmidhi (1084) from the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh at-Tirmidhi. ruling can be based. Am I not good enough? Please reference your sources, maybe you need to be careful what you say cause you will be accountable for your intentions and whats in your heart. how can we question ALLAHER command. I know men wont admit that they are at fault instead they would prove us women wrong. Encourage him to make Salaah at the Masjid. Dont get angry if your wife is not thrilled by certain gestures someone else told you drives women crazy. refrained from establishing a haraam relationship even though there is a hello I am reading your article now in 2017. Here is one of the hadiths where Prophet Muhammad SAW advocated men to choose fertile women. We were both widowed. They was ringing me to amenice me to leave him. thats another thing his wife is age 25 and me 46. You give her (your wife) to eat if you eat and give her clothes if you dress. After all, as Muslims, we SUBMIT our will to ALLAAHs. This is the Islamic view though. Polygamy is a difficult situation to address. well said KAY i totally agree with you. It goes so far in Islam that if a woman wishes to perform an optional fasting (not the ones in Ramadan) she NEEDS to have her husbands permission! 5 minutes 6 seconds Dream about husband with another woman can occur when women feel insecure, ignored, or reluctant about a particular relationship. I agree with you 100% Kay. My husband cheat since been married only first year we were might not cheat after for 11 years still cheat. Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her! y should we share our husband? Thank you. marrying someone other than her husband when she is still married to her He is aware of why she is unhappy and of what she wants, but he just states that its halal and she should accept it. Get it together men. I did not find anything to be forced. Sister, I would be careful about saying that multiple marriages disgust you. I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. i am too selfish when is comes to my husband. I really understand what all of our sisters are saying and I know they feel hurt but please be careful what you say against what Allah is saying if I was you I would recite my KALIMAH again as some statement u made might have taken u out the fold of islam. He Wants To Have Sex More Often. Sometimes for beauty and truth, other times to be selfish or destructive. Narrated from Aisha Radhiyallahu anhuma, If the Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa Sallam is about to travel, then he draws among his wives; whichever of them is his part, he goes out with him. Please keep the following hadith in mind: Things Ur Muslim Wife May Not Tell U. Sighhhh. Dear sheikh, As-Salaam `Alaykmu wa Rahamtu Allah wa Barakatuh. Purpose just to get back at one another. However, if the woman disliked this action, and did not want to give her husband this right, then it was her responsibility to mention this in the marriage contract. 30 January, 2022 Q I am a converted Muslim from the UK. Let not your possessions and your children forsake you from the remembrance of Allah, whoever maketh them they are the losers. (Verse 63: 9). The unending complaints of adultery, abuse and bad behavior is considered normal these days. husband and has made the husband a covering for his wife. sister Fatima, May ALLAH forgive you. you, why is he striving to wreck your home and destroy your family? He created man from water (semen), then He made man has offspring and mushaharah (family relationships by marriage) and is the Lord of the Almighty ( Verse 25: 54), The second marriage can be done as long as you do not marry two women at once. if a man truly loves his wife he would never think about any other woman and yes like KAY said i would leave my man the second he thinks about marrying another woman, regardless how much i love him. If the conditions for a second marriage are right according to the Shari`ah, he can legally go ahead and marry. lover to pray istikhaarah, because istikhaarah is only prescribed in cases responding to great kindness and good treatment with a great wrong and From the point of view of religion: Probably, it is no longer a secret that Islam strictly forbids men and women to chat, unless they are close relatives of each other, or the marriage between them is forbidden by Shariah. Remember that Allaah allowed it and the Prophet (the best creation of all) peace be upon him, practiced it. my dear kar, If I found out my husband was thinking about other women I would divorce him straight away. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. Why should a nice type Muslim sister be patient when her husband is verbally or even physically abusive, emotionally distant, selfish, childish an narcisstic? Dont keep threatening him with words, you need to show you mean it and do it. Everyone is touched by time, but who he is inside is what matters. It was only later, that the Hindu priests and the Christian Church restricted the number of wives to one. Mashaa Allaah,this was a pleasant article to read. If he can be attracted to another woman to the extent that hed want to marry her then he never loved me enough. He assured over a three year period he was singleno kids nothing. since its Allahs will and polygamy is halal. what if a woman has more than average desire. He forgot all the years that we have spent together, since he has grown bored with me and wants a change." That my way is a little cliche, and sterotypical but none the less, he still loves me. and the worst (halal) thing in marriage is divorce..correct me if im wrong anyone! thats not the issue. Its so clear what is being ordained for us: monogamous marriage except in highly specific circumstances, such as those you mention, and always within the clear rules. So brothers and sisters before talking about the chances of your husband or yourself getting married again we need to fix and improve our current marriages. Maintenance for Woman under Muslim Marriage Law coz its natural, most people are inclined toward people who show concern, respect etc over them. Hibbaan: If a woman offers her five daily prayers and fasts her month I got married to him for my family, soon after marriage the day I went to his house the entire house burden n my father in laws responsibility was on me. To explain further: if a Muslim woman prays istikhaarah about Where is the heavy duty never ending reminders from family, imams, alims, scholars to men that paradise lies at the foot of the mother, not the father or husband? Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. despite all this my husband chats to women and deep down i have strong reason to suspect he has been with other women. A wife is entitled to a good sustenance and clothing in a way that sensible. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife. While a man is always ready to cause the rise of this ummah. Give them a life of good and worth living. Quran permits limited polygyny As I mentioned earlier, Quran is the only religious book on the face of the earth that says marry only one. U cannot judge Islam as for a single Muslim because most of the Muslims in the world do not actually/fully follow Islamic teachings & this is the main reason everybody/non Muslims abuse Muslims, u should read English version of Quran then u will understand. According to it:- When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. May Allah help you get the right understanding and stand firm on the Straight Path! It just means that all (straight) men do, at some point in their lives, consider having another woman (i.e. Ameen. The question is, how do his parents need support and why is getting married in Egypt going to fulfill that? Because of this my husband calls me disloyal yet if i dont confide and let my worries out i feel overwhelmed, anxious, miserable even to the extent of feeling ill. i would love nothing more than to see my husband off to work and welcome him home to a clean tidy house, a meal on the table and myself looking the way he likes me to look. Mentally. will question you on the Day of Resurrection? I cant be selfish on this when it comes to second marriage & indeed Ill try to fix issues instead of going for second thought. Uh thats not very fair? Good question. Arabbi. Sometimes women refuse sex on the grounds of Ill health, pregnancy, childbirth etc. I pray Allaah helps you and others in situations like yours. I found this to be quite patronising and if Im not mistaken it was written by a male? You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. Below is an explanation of one of the verses of the Quran. he will not be able to stay with out her. Subhanallah! No one deserves to be spoken to like that. Your words have given me hope and made me realise my husband does love me a great deal and shows it in his own way. This is the silliest thing Ive read in awhile. i dont want to leave him.and i can make my parents me to marry him.but he is not ready for thatwhat will i do? The truth is that men and women are different, so the sooner you can move on from that the better. That hadith is BOGUS. Think about this please. Women should follow the good example of the wives of the Below is one of the verses of the Quran that explains this. One of the blessings that Allaah bestows upon some spouses is Sure, I can fake respect. He was a good person, good akhlaq and very pious. Other women and couldnt wait to taste a man as well he told me about, that he desires men too. Allah says, Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four. (An-Nisa: 3) Neglecting my children and the business. Both my husband (also 30s) and I were thrilled to be expecting a baby and this was very much wanted and hoped for. I know what this marriages can do, my father married many wives and the out come was not good, the wives ended up hating each other and we the children did not get olong with each other. Wow i guess its informative as well as helpfull ..JazakAllah. Next time he gets ready for work button his shirt or tie his tie and tell him how handsome he looks. Ep 32 Diff 11 Jan 23, Inde, 2022, 29 min. This is not an issue for me personally, but I really find this to be incredibly sexist (no pun intended) and its as if the womans feelings are totally unimportant when her husband is horny. I liked him and I liked everything about him. If you feel something wrong then do some research on that topic and InshaALLAH you will obviously get your answer. 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